So im going out with this guy that I really like, but after we started going out, he stopped chasing me. I didn't ask him about it and I gave him his space. We used to text every night but now its every once in a while. I'm really hoping he isn't losing interest in me already and I just need to know, How Do I Get Him To Chase Me Again?
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He's caught you, so why would he keep chasing? It just makes sense! Either get some competition for him, even if isn't serious, just so he knows you have options. Go out with him in public and be flirty with other guys. Show him what he has and that other guys would be happy to step in if he's not going to claim you!
Or, just ignore him until he is ready to act less distant. This is pretty common with guys, though. I wouldn't take it personally. Bugging him about it or coming off as high maintenance or needy is not a good plan. He just needs a wake up call.1