How do I get a Cancer man to like me?

Only answer if you believe in astrology. Give me tips, I read about it and already know a bit about Cancers. He just got out of a long relationship. I need advice. We talk a lot.


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  • You should be aware that you should not rely entirely on Astrology when trying to make up someone’s character and romantic interests. Astrology can give you a good prediction on how someone might be or behave, but take it as it is: a guess. Personalities and behavioral patterns are affected by a lot of things, including experience, the environment in which the person grew up, gender, among others.
    That being said, I was quite surprised on how accurate the guides to attract cancer natives were over at wikiHow. I cannot post the links here, but you should check them out.
    Some additional pieces of advice. 1) Some cancers (women and men) are pure nightmares to deal with. They tend to have a lot of emotional insecurities and huge mood swings. They can quickly push you to your limits, no matter how patient of a person you are. 2) Despite what some astrology sites say, cancer men can be players. Yes. Some cancer men are knights in shinny armor and the dream of most girls and women, but there are some players lurking as well. Be careful. 3) Go slowly with you love interest. He can use you as a rebound and then leave you when he feels that your relationship isn’t going anywhere. Go slow and steady. 4) Be yourself. Yes. Cancers have a keen intuition. If you try to be someone that you are not, you love interest might pick up the signs and run away from you. Or, he can sense that he manipulate and use for whatever he wants. Cancers can be very manipulative.
    How to I know this? I’m a Cancer; My mother is a Cancer; My Grandmother and Grandfather were Cancers; I dated a Cancer girl (she had huge emotional insecurities and mood swings); I have a lot of Cancer friends (women and men).

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  • Cancers are prone to strong emotion, are typically compassionate for others, and often have a tough outer shell but are really big softies on the inside. They are most compatible with other water signs. In a relationship they can be very clingy. If he just got out of a long relationship it may not be a good time to pursue him. I'm a Cancer myself, btw.

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  • cancers have sunny moments now. they are open to all bullshit and run down the streets with a smile. the flowers are starving and the fall is coming, the air is windy and cold and so the cancer comes and goes.
    but it is always there.
    if you are fish then you gonna be tasty and tempered with lots of different condiment sets and catch the cancer

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  • What the heck am I reading. I'm a cancer male and some bimbo asked me prior to date what my astrology sign was to see if we were compatible, we were but let's just say the date never happened. lol

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  • I know a lot about Astrology and believe in it deeply. Shame on all the people who think it's bullshit, if they'd just read their horoscope they'd understand.

    The thing about cancer men is they LOVE titties, I mean, just... can't get enough, so I hope you're stacked. Secondly, they need at least 2 years in between relationships so you may want to wait it out. Venus is in alignment for them right now so you may be able to cut that back to 18 months.

    Good luck!

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    • Your analogy of us cancers (assuming you mean before the Mayan calendar changed and not after, which is another thing that is difficult, as some places that use horoscopes still use the old horoscopes, about 50/50 I find) is pretty accurate. Then I remembered something. This is a generality that applies to a vast majority of people. Which is how I see horoscopes (and any other future revealing phenomena I have come across) it's not that their bad or inaccurate. It's that their generalities that can apply to most if not all people, which is how they tend to be so accurate. People believe a generality told to them through such method applies to them and when it happens they are amazed that somehow this was my "lucky day" and something fortunate happened. When in reality something fortunate happens just about every day if you are looking for it to happen. This isn't to say horoscopes are useless. In the "lucky day" scenario for example. If a cookie can make you believe that today is

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  • you do not get a man like you. you act as what you are, he may be interested or he may not. as it was how he acted as himself that made you get attracted to him.

    and avoid the astrology nonsense. Zoroastrians were astronauts and their ancient astrology is symbolical. not slightly close or related to the nonsense that are used now. it was some interpretations of observations. and the interpretations and news of events were in a way inducing thoughts because it is the work of a magician.

    you are inducing some thoughts to yourself. nothing more. see men, also yourself out of these classifications. you cannot achieve anything by them, but you may achieve by seeing the reality, being accepting of it, and acting through logic.

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  • By curing his cancer.

    And maybe in he'll be so grateful that he'll cure your astrology in return.

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  • They're emotional and all about 'family' and 'friends'. Terrible organiser though.

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  • Im a Cancer female, but the males and females are so different. Im good at this stuff though, anything specific you need advice about?

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    • We hung out on Friday. Saturday morning he asked to see me again. Ended up spending the night at his, nothing happened though, we only kissed. Sunday I went home, and then Monday we hung out again, and he slept over. We had sex. We went for breakfast Tuesday morning. I know it all seems pretty great, but I know that he does not want to rush things because he just got out of a serious relationship and for some reason I am not convinced this is heading the right way. Could you give me some advice on how to make sure he likes me? I heard it is not Cancer behaviour to just mess around with people they do not like. And he told me I am the first girl he's been with after his breakup. He seems honest.

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    • This is going to sound stupid but I just hate revealing my identity even though there's no chance of me knowing you. Can we comment here? If it really takes a while I'll just message you but I'm much more comfortable staying anonymous.

      The breakup is recent. It's been maybe three weeks? But they were doing long distance before that and drifted apart. So the relationship was not that great in the end.

    • yes its complicated and long and Im a Cancer, I take care of others emotions ;)

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