I know this may seem lame, but I feel like a wallflower, I rarely start conversations in school because I am shy but now that all my friends are out and starting to date, I want to find someone for myself also.
How to get someone's attention?
What Guys Said 5
simple. run behind him and push him. YOU'LL get his attention for sure1
Awww ur quite the cutie hunny but i predict that guys will never approach u or only a few due to ur beauty. Most guys automatically assume that such a cutie has alrdy been taken or that ur outta our league so we won't have a chance at all meaning we won't risk rejection and the humiliation that comes with it. U gotta hint the guy ur interested in or else confessed to him which more cuties need to do it as well i syead of guys. Most guys are confused about hints so.. make it obvious ;30
Actually I've got the same thing , & still cuz I'm afraid to be rejected so I think it's normal but you have to wait for someone who really likes you & starts the conversation or poke u0
What Girls Said 1
Maybe just work at getting better at small talk. If you're having a conversation with someone, keep the conversation going by asking basic questions about them. Talk about things that relate to their responses. For example, if a person says that love amusement parks, maybe tell them about a great or crazy ride you've been on.
I remember this one guy in school would just walk up to people and strike up a conversation with them between classes. He always had plenty of different people to choose to sit with at lunch by doing that. That was admirably bold even to me, but I mention that to say that sometimes you can't always rely on the other person to start the conversation. A more subtle way of getting to know others could be simply asking to sit with someone at lunch or saying hi to a person you're sitting next to in class. It's not always easy, but try to expect the best from others instead of assuming you're going to get a negative reaction.0
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