Is it better to get dumped or being the dumper in a relationship?

Do you think it is better to get dumped or being the person doing the dumping in a relationship? Why do you think one or the other?

  • To get dumped
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  • To be the dumper
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Most Helpful Guy

  • It's "easier" to be the dumper...
    You get to "prepare" before hand, you can practise what you are going to say.
    And most likely you aren't intrested that much anymore, so to put it harsh... you don't really care anymore.

    While as the "dumpee", this will probably come out of the blue.
    So you are shocked surprised and you suddenly have to respond but you just got no clue what to say.
    And in this case you are most likely under the impression things are going ok and you are still intrested so you have to see a person that you care for a lot walk out of your life.

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What Guys Said 5

  • both are good experiences to go through.

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  • if I had to pick, I'd say to be the dumper - just because there's no 'shock' associated. But really, it's best if it is a mutually agreed upon course of action..

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  • it doesn't really matter if you think about it

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  • To be the dumper, u dont get as sad and it doesn't look as bad to others.

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  • still hurts but not as bad

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    • Yes, but sometimes the dumper regrets their decision.. whereas the dumped can start moving on after a while?

    • Maybe that's the case for girls but not usually the case for guys

What Girls Said 1

  • Obviously, to be the dumper, lol!

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