I figure most would say no but suppose the girl or guy was really really hot! And you saw them and had some contact with them every day , either at work or they lived near you. And they were always flirting and hitting on you. Your in , what you feel is a very close loving relationship. Would you break up first or sample being with the new person first to make sure it would work out before breaking up? Do you know anyone in a relationship who is constantly "testing the waters"?
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It seems that you still like your current girlfriend, but you guys have lost the spark and a lot of the love. If you dislike your current relationship, try to change it or get out of it (even if there is no hot girl hitting on you). Think about it, if you really were still deeply in love with your girlfriend, would you even consider sleeping with another? It is normal to lose the love in a relationship and to get interested in other people in a romantic or sexual way. It happens a lot and that doesn't make you a bad person. What does make you a bad person is cheating on your girlfriend. If you really want to get romantically of sexually involved to a new girl, have the decency to break up with your old one first. Do it out of respect for your current girlfriend (I'm guessing you still respect her as a person) and out of respect for yourself (do you really want to be the cheating asshole?). You also don't want to get yourself the reputation of a cheater (gossip gets around fast). Some future potential girlfriends won't even let you date them because of your actions. So try to change your current relationship for the better or break up. After you've broken up, you're free to do what you want with this new girl without being an asshole.1