I went on a date w this guy and we hit it off pretty well. After, we started making out and just kinda grinding in the backseat of the car WITH clothes on.. is that too far on a first date? Would the guy take you seriously after?
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It's only too far if you feel that it is too far. If you are comfortable with the decisions you make, it doesn't matter what he thinks, does it?
If he doesn't take you seriously after that--well, then why would you want him? He does you a favor by screening himself out and leaving. Honestly, if he's going to let it affect the way he thinks of you, he isn't really worth your time. You want someone who's compatible with the way you want to behave and think.
People have sex after several dates; sometimes on the first date; sometimes minutes after meeting. This is a very relative thing--honestly, for me, if we haven't gotten physical by date three, I just assume the girl isn't interested and move on. Other people assume you are only genuinely interested if you'll wait until you've exchanged vows. What you need to do is decide where YOUR line is and find a guy who meets you there.0