The second date in, she had dinner at my place and we ended up playing cards and watching a movie.
She had to go to the bathroom some time during the movie so I didn't think anything of it (if anything maybe she wanted the TV noise to overpower the peeing noise?).
Anyway after the movie was over she left, nothing unusual, she said for me to call her tomorrow after I get off work.
Then I go into the bathroom to brush my teeth, and there is nothing but two pieces of crap floating in the toilet. Is it common for girls not to wipe or flush? Was she practicing some sort of water-saving thing (there is a drought right now in southern California). Or was this a hidden message of some kind?
Should I bring this up when I see her again? Do you think this would embarrass her? I would appreciate people to flush after all, and there was nothing wrong with the plumbing...
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DON'T mention it. Not until you've been married for at LEAST 5 years.
Mistakes happen. I bet she forgot. That is a thing that happens. And yes, girls flush and wipe. Maybe your toilet wasn't very strong and they came back? Maybe she forgot. I wouldn't judge her for it until she does it again. But maybe not in the same toilet 'cause that could be a genuine plumbing issue.6