i know its nothing to be embarrassed about, but i can't help but get embarrassed or/and sad when im not dating or anything like that. People ask me often "why dont you have a boyfriend" and then im like "I haven't found the right guy yet i guess". But while saying that i deep down know its because its something im doing wrong. I doubt that it is/was something wrong with every guy i have met, ever. It's obviously me. It's so embarrassing when ex. boyfriends of my friends feels the "need" to fix me up with someone because i can't get anyone myself.
Its like since im so "pretty" and i have a such "good body" i should be very experienced with guys, its almost expected of me to have a boyfriend, or at least be able to pick a guy up
It makes me feel like a failure... its nothing i often think about, but when random people (!), my mother ask me why i dont have a boyfriend i never really know what to say. Because the fact is that i dont really know. Im guessing its either because of my looks or my personality... And to be honest i dont feel like neither are bad, but i could ofc be totally wrong. What can i do? what are my options? Do i need to wear more makeup (i wear makup once a week)? do i need to have straighter hair (im mixed)?
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You got to feel more confidence with your self. Most people really are not atracted to insecure persons cause that´s equal to a insecure relationship.0