So, my bf is in the army. We talk all day everyday, when he is on camp and i visit him every 2/3 weeks either for a weekend or a week (depends how much time off work i can get). We haven't been dating for very long but things got pretty serious from the get go. He talks to me about marriage and kids and he wants us to move in together when i go to uni next year as it will be quite close to where he is based. Everything seems perfect and we get along really well. Now the issue i have is that when he goes to his family home on the weekends (I live in London and he lives about 2 hours away) our communication rates are very different. We don't talk as much throughout the day and his phone is always off at night. He claims that his phone has died (whilst out drinking with mates) or that he left it at home. It wouldn't bother me if it was just once or twice but it is literally everytime he goes home. Never has this problem on camp of course. Could this be a genuine excuse or is it just straight bullcrap that i should really look more into? Could really use some insight here!! Thanks
His phone is always off at night when he goes home for the weekend!
What Guys Said 1
i turn my phone when i go to sleep0
What Girls Said 1
To me it sounds fishy. He turns it off at night while he is out with friends, drinking? Sounds like he doesn't wanna be bothered by whatever he is doing. Going out drinking alone is a no go anyway to me when you're serious with somebody. Alcohol causes a lot of crap0
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