I have given up on love and believe you me, I have tried but after being rejected my whole life.. I give up. I am really beautiful (as per society), funny, friendly, smart, humble, responsible, well groomed, fashionable and easy going. Of course I have many negatives too. But I just want to make it clear that there is nothing you can easily pinpoint as my reason for being single. People never understand why I am single.. I'm that girl. They constantly say, "I don't get it, you're every guy's dream.. you're just unlucky". And I have stopped trying to improve myself or find what is wrong with me.
But I am hurting, every day. Especially since my last rejection some time back. It felt so right, he acted so in love and even he didn't want more than friendship after he himself kissed me. But I don't want to cry every day anymore, I accept that I am perhaps too hideous to like/love but I don't want to be hurt about it. I want to accept it and enjoy other things regardless of this. Any suggestions on how to stop feeling the pain and be at peace with my fate? Thank you
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Hard to believe your story. The guy that kissed you and dropped you must be fudging queer or mamas boy religious freak. Or there are some details your not telling. Lets see face and body pix. Lets hear about all the rejections blow by blow. There is much more to this story.
You need to keep looking and dating. Believe me, if you are all you say you are and you have a pleasant personality and good disposition - there are guys that would kill to have you.
Now, if I have read you all wrong and what you say is all true. And you truly have given up, go lesbian, I'm sure the lesbi gals would love to devour you.
For happiness there are 4 components:
Someone to love.
Someone to love you.
Something to do.
Something to look forward to.
So keep at it if you want to be happy. As far as healing rejection? Study Buddhism, practice meditation and mindfulness. Stay busy with positive and healthy time fillers. Get plenty of sleep, exercise and healthy eating. Good luck!0