I'm always the guy that girls call after a breakup when they need someone to talk to but I'm never the guy that girls want to be with. I'm not that attractive or tall, but I'm a decent guy. I guess I'm just looking for advice. Thanks.
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These girls probably see as just a friend now, but do not let that keep you down. You must take control of the situation by being less needy and improving self-worth. Examples: maintain a certain amount of distance from these girls you speak of (they know by now that you'll always have their back in any situation and that's sort of a reserved boyfriend trait) without realizing it you have friend zoned yourself by allowing yourself to being too available that's right too available. Solution: always maintain a certain amount of mystery towards girls especially ones you like (they eat that shit up, my friend) don't jump all in a conversation ok go slow make small talk remember open ended questions allow her to open to you and only leak a few things about you keep conversations light and short the first couple of times. They say men love the chase its actually the women who like to chase. Just from what you wrote I can tell your a good dude who means well. Your doing something right if they like to talk to you on an emotional level like that. As for self-worth do see something you don't like in the mirror do something about it workout lift weights obtain a hobby or interest that is all your own. You can overcome this my friend I know it. Remember respect comes from within and through that you will see the results. Work on yourself for the time being do not seek out love for love will find you in the most unexpected moments. Trust me women will sense you have it going on if you show them your awesome with or without them in YOUR LIFE because you're behind the wheel and she just their for the ride. Best of luck bro we've all been there1