I mean, if he already knows that the girl really likes and cares for him.
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I think its because of a lack of confidence. Making the first move is very intimidating for guys, but its also for girls. For example, I would make the first move by asking a girl out for lunch. Its intimidating for me because she could say no. But if she said yes, its also very intimidating for me as well to portray myself in a way that hopefully she likes. However, the same goes for the girl, I've learned that girls are just as nervous when they are asked out on a first date. They want to portray themselves in an attractive manner as well. Its a two way street, and after realizing that, it makes me feel more relaxed and therefore, more confident.
I've learned that with girls, its not what you say but rather what you do that girls take notice. Im not afraid to text/call girls for dates, but rather Im afraid if im choosing the right restuarant/coffee shop/concert for the first date.
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