I have been dating this girl and its been up an down but i really like her and enjoy spending time with her. I think she likes me but I have been thinking about her non stop. Thing is although I do like her its kinda messing up my life because I feel like I'm always waiting for her to call, etc and I was wondering if there is anything I can do to just get her off my mind because its kind of interfering with other stuff I'm doing.
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ok take a bit more agressive approach, but stay respectfull. i'm still seeing a girl i really like, its a bit weird.. she has a relationship, but I've dated with her before she got into a relationship in just 2 weeks. She doesn't really love this guy, thats the impression i get 6 weeks we haven't seen each other, her going hot and cold on me etc... then 1 day i decided to confront her with behaviour telling her, listen i know you still like me, the way you act, your actions dont add up with your words. well, she leaned onto me, we sat on the sofa and started making out, and ended up having sex. i had sex with her 4 times in the 5 consequtive days i saw her. Now i do still see her, and we are intimate but having sex is bit more complicated. her 7 yo old kid is home , she is 24 herself. last time she told me this wasn't right, she likes me but just as a friend. Yesterday i went to her place, her daughter was on her room, playing. then i just spend the evening with her on her sofa, talking etc... having fun. she lays her legs on me, and i massage her back. she didn't wanted me to kiss her in the beginning, then we did a little kissing session. she told me she was tired, so i told her, ok ill go, then i want to give her a small kiss and she kissed me, and we made out and almost had sex , would have had sex if she was alone in her appartment. Woman are strange, so i told her , Tuesday we are off, we can have some sex if she doesn't have her monthly problem ( hope she doesn't ) . today she almost forgot about it when i told her cya tuesday. Im not sure if ill see her Tuesday because she has massive mood swings... ill just go there, rang her doorbell or wait for her to come home and see whats possible. did i expect things to go this way after 6 weeks going through hell, no i didnt.. so just go for it, but be a gentlemen dont force yourself upon a girl. maybe she is waiting for you as well, sitting at home, wondering if... doesn't get you anywhere, i did that for 6 weeks0