okay so i went out on a couple of dates with this girl i work with and she tells me she’s not looking for a relationship now. I told her I really like her so she defiantly knows how I feel. She then started wanting to hang around me more than ever. Calls me daily, holds my hand. She’s also been hugging me for a long time and then she kisses me on the cheek. Im super confused because I do like her but I really don't know if she likes me and I don’t know what to do.
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When a girl says "she's not ready for a relationship" usually means that " she's not ready for the wrong relationship. She must be still hurt from her last one. 1 Peter 4:8 Above all, love each other deeply, because love covers over a multitude of sins.
which means that your helping her to trust n love again by showing her you care about her. Take it slow you told her you like her that's good. Now be her friend first n get to know her, she obviously feels confortable around you. Don't put so much though into it, go with the flow. If it really turns out she's playing you then whatever theirs a million other girls wipe her off your shoulder n move on. Or you can be up front and ask her why she thinks she's not ready for a relationship. Hopefully your not her rebound. Honesty is the best. I told this guy I wasn't ready n he said he wasn't ready. I really meant it, but he helped me get ready for one n showed me that I wasn't broken. If she doesn't give u a straight up answer pull away a little n see how she reacts. You don't want to waste your time either. Then if she freaks out on u n misses you she def. likes you.0