My girlfriend and I of almost a year are having an issue. We both still love each other very much but I don't know what to do. She cheated on me and we're trying to work past it but what she did hurt. We're trying to work past it but it comes back to me whenever I'm alone and I get really sad. I just need to know what we can do, what her or I needs to do. I just need someone's advice.
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Do you think you can be with her knowing she cheated on you?
Do you think she will never cheat again?
Could you handle it if she did?
If your answer is Yes to all of these, then you've no problem.
If you answered no, then all I can recommend is to talk to her. Let her know that what she did really hurt you.
If you need her to promise not to cheat on you, do that. Even ask her just to be honest if she doesn't want to be with you anymore.
Even if you are one of these people who never really talks to your girlfriend about your feelings, this is the best way to get some semblance of peace.0