My boyfriend has told me before that he is a natural flirt, and sometimes he can't help it. He often talks about other girls, how in the past they dumped him, how he doesn't give the time of day to some particular girls and how they don't have their head on the right path, and how previously if he wanted sex from girls, he could but chooses not to. He talks about girls at his work flirting with him and wanting him, but he claims they're not attractive and he doesn't want them. He's said before that girls want him once he's in a relationship and that all the girls would be jealous of him and I. Also I noticed the other day that he likes lots of girls photos on Instagram (I know it sounds immature) and I'm not particularly that angry, just a little annoyed. I do trust him. What should I do?
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So basically, he opened up to you, you got mad, and he shut down. congratulations... you just made an honest boyfriend begin to think that he has to lie to you to keep you happy. tbh its a popular problem. He never acted on it, he just told you what he observed, now you have put him in the zone to consider acting on it. You have basically triggered him to cheat. its not his fault others are attracted, plus he told you about it, plus he told you how he turns it down, plus he is with YOU, not them. Now he is either going to start lying to you, or considering moving to one of them. Congrats.1