I feel like I'm kind of aggressive and I'm very competitive, like I get really into sports and I feel like when a guy sees me get really into a game of dodgeball or something, I'm afraid I might seem too intense and into the game. I'm also a little independent and don't like a lot of help from people sometimes, but not all the time.
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I for one love an independent girl, it lets me know that she is strong! and that if she wants to be with me its because she wants to not because she is needy, it also means they are busy and active and they will allow me to have a little more space than the average girl. Aggressiveness can be sexy or a turn off, it depends how the aggressiveness is interpreted in a certain situation.
An example for a turn off aggressively yells at me while we ice skate cause i can't keep up on the ice!
An example for sexy/turn on grabs you by the hand and leads you to the dance floor then places hands on hips!
As long as your aggression doesn't challenge his masculinity you should be fine!1