So I've had 2 dates with a girl that I'm crushing on, she already agreed to go on a third.. but I'm having the strong feeling that I want it more then her, when I'm with her she holds my hand and lays her head on my shoulder and she is the sweetest girl. But when I'm for example texting her something sweet she is very distant and cold, I have the feeling that I am the only one that really wants it to happen, whilst she is just tagging along. I don't blame her for not being in love with me (yet). The thing is that when I for example text something sweet she'll reply cold towards me, and who does that when you truly like someone, then you'll text something sweet back right?
What could be the reason why this girl is so sweet in person but so distant through text (I know text and person is very different but you have to agree that if someone you like flirts with you, and you like them back that the most logical thing to do is flirt back right?)
Maybe she is playing hard to get? I don't know I'm really confused by this
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first you need to know in every relationship world wide someone must love the other more or in other words someone biers the other..
i faced something the same my fiancee was the same cold when we text and a different person when we go out on a date.. well now we are married and the trick is not to get frustrated i mean keep on doing what you are doing because there are people who are just like this dont know how to express there feeling through writing u just treat her right and continue flirting with her till u get closer then eventually she will open up1