people really do carry on a lot of reponsibilities and other things in life the best thing to do is be understanding the more understanding you are the more likely your relationship will work out still show you care by pics or simple short text or leaving a long message something funny but not to long just be understanding as much as you can your relationship can only go stronger getting threw tough times like these if you miss him maybe you making the first step and going to see him and coming to see him will make him not only happy but my friend did it and her relationship has worked out amazingly now there clingy and so close together my friend and her boyfriend to be honest i love space and so i could not do it plus i rather me and who ever i get involved with to make time for other important people in our life and both get some where by working a lot and talking once in a while or weekends
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You're not being an idiot as there is arguably a reason for you to worry, but you're probably overthinking it. I went through a similar phase with my boyfriend, where we went from hanging out every single day to seeing each other briefly once a week at most. I worked myself into a frenzy, thinking he got sick of me after just 2-3 months.
One time after we hung out we got to talking and I just told him I feel pretty sidelined, and would appreciate at least a text or call if we can't chill for a few days. He was completely clueless as to how I felt, but after I let him know he made sure to keep in touch.
6 months is long enough together that he should care. Try to just nicely ask him to reach out via cell phone at least once every day or 2.
I'm in the same exact place!!!
My boyfriend is super busy and I feel like our communication is so dry... He works and go to school all day everyday, he has no days off. Full time student and basically at his job. I often feel I'm clingy as well. I feel that just try and be considerate, look from his perspective. I don't know about your boyfriend but mine is a nursing major and has a load of work, exams every week and studying for the nursing exam. Than works 9 to 5, just know that deep down he loves you and if he had time he would spend it with. Don't think negative, we can do this! Lol
You didn't explain anything about what your boyfriend does or why he's so busy. Speaking from my own experiences I'd say that yes, you are nuts. Guys don't need that attachment or to talk to their girls every friggin day, especially the longer into the relationship you are. Age is a big factor too I think. I'm not as clingy as I once was when I was younger.
So if your guy is on an oil rig for a living and only comes home once every 6 weeks then yes... just give him a break.
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IDK! I do see some flashing yellow lights.
You seem measured and mature.
Maybe do a little disconnect for a few days and see what happens.
If the line goes dead you know it's over.
If it opens up you have just learned something about him.
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