Something I'm doing is wrong. I need to find myself, and experience more before entering another relationship. I do NOT want a relationship until the man is worth marrying to be honest. From now on, I want to travel, work on finding my passions and sleep around with lots of men. Anyone have any experience in this lifestyle? Anyone ever feel the same way?
After a series of failed relationships at the age of 28, I would like to stay single and sleep around forever?
What Guys Said 8
You can do whatever you want but I just wanted to add my 2 cents on this:"But if he seemed marriage worthy, I wouldn't sleep with him so soon. I would want to build something first"
So basically you're going to have a bunch of casual no strings attached sex with loses and then when you meet a quality guy that's WORTHY of marraige, you're going to take it slow and make him wait. So that mean lucky is going to have to wait months getting to know you, investing his time, trust, and emotions into you before he can have sex. So he'd be waiting months for something that all the other guys got early on with little to no effort. AND on top of that he gets to marry you. So you're expecting this "mairrage worthy" guy to wait for something the other guys got easily and he has to buy you an expensive ring and take the risk of having to pay child support and alimony if things go south (which considering your track record for long-term relationships, it wouldn't be surprising if things do go south).
Boy is that guy going to feel special.
I've got nothing against girls sleeping around but when this sorta stuff irritates me. If uou sleep around, you should be happy marrying the guy th at slept around. Don't sleep around and then expect a good mairage quality guy to marry you. Sex isn't special if you force a guy to wait for something that you give away for free to everyone else. Honestly it's shit like this that makes me never want to get married.2
"After a series of failed relationships" - I know that feel.
Yes, and you can travel here and sleep with me if you want. But in my opinion this lifestyle gets old real quick.0
Seems you are deserved of such a lifestyle.1
how about you start by sleeping with me.0
I feel this way right now, but I'm 27. But I've gotten to the point where I've thought I do not mind being on my own.1
What Girls Said 3
If you need to get that out of your system before settling down, then go for it. Just stay safe.
I have a friend who did something like that. She did peace corps then traveled to a bunch of other countries before coming back to the states. Even when she got a full time job here, she managed traveling to several other states for vacation. Had a few casual relationships along the way. Now she's been with her current boyfriend for almost 3 years. She says the travel gets really tiring after a while.1
I did that from age 19-21. Now i'm 22 and engaged. I think if i'd be end 20s i wouldn't ever go for this. I mean its not gonna be easier to find a men when you turn into a 'maneater, (nice word for this).
If you want to start a family later on I recommend you to keep going on dates and meet guys who have the same relationship goals like you do.
Why did it never work out with the other guys though?0
Sleeping around with lots of men is sort of a risky idea1
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