Okay, so my boyfriend and I have been dating a good 2 months or so and every week it seems it's getting harder and harder and it isn't our fault... My mom has recently decided I can't go to his house because it's an apartment and she doesn't trust us... She also decided if we see eachother at a club like speech and debate that's all we need for that weekend. I only see him once a week and if I can't see him outside of a club every week I will die. He wants me to tell her off because she is constantly changing rules and being mean to me... But if I do she could easily take him away... What do I do?
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Parents, im one lol, she needs to understand through kids will do the exact opposite of what they are told. By telling u that u can't see him she is pushing u more towards him. A good parent would give the child trust and then be there to pick up the pieces when they fall. She may not listen but u do need to talk to her again. Discuss it like an adult, talk about sex and the fact u know the risks and will not be doing anything like that with him (even if u are) and school is the most important thing and you'll continue to get good grades and improve. Yet by not seeing your bf it is only going to affect those grades and tell her that would be her fault. Tell her u love him and she can trust u because she has brought u up so well and you are level headed etc and know right from wrong. Tell her to give u a chance to prove it by increasing the time she allows u to see him. Good luck0
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