I've been seeing him for over a year and a half but we aren't official. He tells me he loves me and thinks about me always. Tonight I am talking to him about being exclusive because its what I want. Do you have any advice on what to say, How to say it and when to bring it up? Before sex? After sex? Right away? He matters a lot to me and I want to be respectful and stay calm and cool. I don't want to make him anxious.
Guys can you give me advice for having the relationship talk with a guy?
What Guys Said 2
Sure, write me and I will give you a good 'blow by blow' confession that may knock him off his feet and into your arms... exclusively.0
Tell him that a guy you know was hitting on you. And he wanted to take you out. And you found yourself considering it, because you never agreed you were dating exclusively.
See how he feels about you going out on a date with this hypothetical guy he doesn't know.
If he's okay with you seeing other people, then he's really not ready to be in a relationship with you and may be seeing other girls himself.0
What Girls Said 2
Just be honest and direct with him, tell him how much you love him, but you feel you are ready to take your relationship to the next level, and simply ask how he feels about it, if he is also ready to be more committed to you too. You have to ensure you are ready to hear the truth though , coz if he says he's not ready yet , itll be like getting hit with a brick. if you have been seeing him for that length of time, your own judgemnt of the relationship and how well you know him , will give you an idea of what to expect him to say. good luck0
After sex he will be more calm. I'm not sure if you bring it up if he will get mad or not. I think you should just tell him straight forward how you feel and that you want to be exclusive. See how he takes it. I dont see why he wouldn't want too after being with you for almost two years.!0
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