So I have been talking to this guy named Ethan for a week now and we mainly talk via text. He is a junior and I am a freshman in high school. I have been told by the girl that set us up that he is a sexual person and I'm honestly not into that. I have been very busy with school lately and I'm surprised I've had time to text him. He's noticed that I haven't been texting him a lot. Today I told him that I liked talking to him but I don't want to date anyone right now. He was either really sad about it or he was trying to be manipulative when I told him. But now it's a few hours later and I miss how we used to talk?(good morning/goodnight texts, cute flirting things)
We are now just friends and I kind of miss how we used to be. But I don't want to date a sexual person because I haven't even had my first kiss yet.
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honey i suggest you stay away from guys like that. If you're not ready it shouldn't be up to anyone else to persuade you into something you'll regret down he road. Most of my friend has sex during high school as early as freshmen year. All of them regret doing it with their first guy wish they would've waited for their current boyfriend.
you're too young to know what sex is all about anyway. I didn't know the magnitude of sex until i was 18 years old out of high school. Before it was all just fun and games. Sex is nothing casual.0