So I've had 2 dates with this cute girl and we had fun, we held hands, kissed, made out and she layed her head on my shoulder. Yesterday I asked her if she wanted to do something on Sunday (haven't said what, was first checking if she was available) and she said that she probably can't because she'll be to hungover? It's her first weekend off in three weeks so this Saturday she is going out drinking with her friends. I don't really know how to feel about this, I can understand that she wants to have fun and stuff but I found this a very odd reason to not want to meet up, unless you are really bad and like throwing up and stuff but anyways.. Has anyone else ever been rejected like this? Me not and I didn't really know how to respond. I like this girl and if she asked me out I'd drink less (or at least not that much that I'm fucked up the day after), I'm probably looking way to much in to this but I'm starting to doubt that she is really interested.
What do you girls/guys think?
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She's only saying that cause she doesn't want to be sleepy, zoned out and tired around you the next day. That'\s what a hangover does. It makes you want to zzzz and your head feels thick and everything is just tiring. She's considerate enough to not want you to see her that way especially early on. You probably won't get much quality time around someone who is zoned out. I don't think this is a negative thing. She's just being honest and wants to spend time with you when she's feeling bright, awake and good. I also wouldn't want to spend time with a guy I'm interested in when I'm really tired or hungover. Just like I myself wouldn't like spending time with a guy who is still sleepy and recovering from a night out.2
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