I went on a date with this girl I worked with, it went well but at a point i asked her if i could kiss her she said no. At a point we were talking about it and I asked her about it, she said she would have rather I just went in for the kiss than ask her. I asked her if she would have kissed me back she said "no, i don't know" wondering whats going on?
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" i asked her if i could kiss her "
I was just about to point this out is a big mistake, but then you say she also told you :
"she said she would have rather I just went in for the kiss than ask her."
ALWAYS remember that lesson. Stop being a fucking wuss with the girl. If the chemistry is right, lean in for the kiss. It's far better to apologise for misreading the signal than to kill the chemistry by asking if you can kiss her. Good grief.
" I asked her if she would have kissed me back she said "no, i don't know""
Of course she doesn't. She doesn't know, because she has no idea anymore what chemistry is between you, if any. Any pretence you had of convincing her that you were an attractive sexual man, is gone out of the window, because you're such a timid and confused little boy.
The chances are actually pretty damn high that she would have kissed you back.
Your timid actions threw everything she thought she knew about you into doubt.
That's why she's confused. That's why she probably won't do a second date.0