We all know nice guys finish last so how do I stop art being a jerk? I'm not gonna completely stop being nice I just want to stop being nice all the time and start being a jerk some of the time.
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You've learned what I learned in highschool late into my senior year. I modeled myself after what I learned from television and what I hear women say all the time. "I want a nice guy", "I want my knight in shining armor", "I want him to be respectful"... NO.
Fuck everything you know about what women say they want. Listen to me.
Women say one thing and do another when it comes to the males they like. You always see these women for example crying over some dude because he was mean to her or they broke up... but did you notice those same women will ALWAYS either get back with that same stupid person OR find another similar person. THEY CAN'T STAY AWAY? Why?
Danger. They Love danger. Mystery... Being taken for a ride they are unsure of. You see. A woman is more likely to stick with a person they are unsure about who has a dominant personality than if they were to go with someone they were completely fond of or simply did not like. Why? Because they are afraid of making decisions. Simply choosing the guy they want (in this case being the nice guy) is too bold of a challenge. They see us as the great beings we are and subconsciously are afraid to go near us. (Like a meeting a celebrity for the first time and having nothing to say) instead, they go one tier down, the degenerates. They are interesting... probably tall, probably loud, probably popular, probably rude, probably an asshole. That's perfect for them. Why?
Because it's easier than getting what they actually want. -And they want to hold on to that dude for so long so they can... I don't know TURN HIM INTO THE GUY THEY WANT or something... Not realizing they could skip a step and go straight there.
But anyway. If you ever give a woman an (and they like this word, but not it's context) ULTIMATUM about whether she likes you or not. It is best we she thinks for a minute and goes... "I don't know". Bam. You got her. Take her for a ride. You just became dangerous. (after hooking her, you can be yourself.)2