I won't sugar coat it, you aren't good enough looking to match decent women on tinder. A decent looking girl will be matched by almost every guy, so even if she only matches back 5%, she'll have loads of matches. Its not a matter of being okay or normal looking, you need to be in the top 20% of guys on there to have any success.
A similar, although less extreme situation appears on other dating sites and in bars/nightclubs. This is why average, below average and ugly guys should stick to meeting women through social groups if they want a decent looking partner, unless they can become better looking.. The reality is there are more men actively looking to meet someone than there are women doing the same, so its very competitive between the men.
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They are probably expecting a lot or you just don't measure up to the other guys on there. It's odd that you had no matches at all though. I am in the same situation I have been thinking about signing up for tinder myself put a nice dong shot on there that oughta get me some attention I deserve haha
Honestly, looking at your picture on here you look cute, but socially awkward. I don't use Tinder, but if I did I probably wouldn't really bother taking my chances with you.
Like I said I don't use Tinder so I don't know how many other better looking guys are on there or what the proportions are for ugly, average, good looking, and hot guys are. If there are a lot of hot-good looking guys on there then I'd take my chances with the next swipe. It's a gamble so I take it girls are betting they'll find better. This doesn't mean that they will though.
Well you're not ugly for sure,
I've never used tinder, but what do you write in your profile? Maybe that's it
From what I know tinder matches you up with people who have liked similar things on facebook, maybe the girls who like similar things have a certain type? So look into that
Can you see who liked you, or can you only see it if you both liked each other. Maybe you're more picky than you think
Honestly, I have no clue. If I had a tender and were two years older I'd swipe for you.
But maybe your standards are too high, idk. Both people have to match up and it's not like you aren't attractive so I'm sure some girls have accepted you, but you probably declined them.
Just wait a little longer and I'm sure you'll find a match =)
Probs because they don't think you're cute. Tinder is a very shallow app tho, so I wouldn't take it too seriously. Tinder isn't even a dating app, it's more like an ego boost app for good looking people. Potentially also a one night stand app. It's trash.
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I suggest what the other guys suggest, although I have yet to work the courage myself, approach girls in real life. The mall is the best place. Look up the term "daygame" on youtube. You will find loads of videos of guys approaching women in public being recorded. Look up people like Johnny Berba, Coach Corey Wayne, Dan Bacon, Tom Torero... these men have great advice.
You could find not via Internet and not dating sites. That's what I'd recommend. I used to be an introvert but now, i don't shut up and it wasn't too hard afterwards for me to find a girl I was interested in.
Get out there and make friends and eventually you might find someone within that group.
I'm that kind of guy who makes as many friends as possible and from that, I have many different groups of people I hangout with. Which eventually, I found my girl out of these people :)Finders a load of shite, I joined that when I was on holiday because apparently it was the shit. It honestly is the shallowest app, it's fu t bough some guys are super fit I was shocked to see them on there I would only swipe guys who where like uber fit, basically meaning most people on tinder are shallow and are only not here for banter or being shallow. I wouldn't take it to heart
You're a bit obsessed with Tinder, you've had multiple questions on it. Hmm. I'm going to copy/paste a link to one of your other questions, read the answer I gave you on that one:
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1187776-i-have-seriously-swiped-hundreds-of-girls-on-tinder-why-am-i-unableI think you need to stop posting a question like this every few days. This is at least your sixth Tinder whine in the last month, you've been given lots of advice and feedback already, what are you doing about that?
Well some girls just have a lot of their preference in a guy. it's hard to find a real genuine person online tho
People can be quite wary on tindr, but you say no 'cute girls' so it depends on your standards a bit aswell
You'll have more luck approaching women in real life.
I'd date you! :) I like the look of you, your not ugly or anything trust me! I think your kinda cute actually, I don't know why the other girls don't like you! You sound like a nice guy.
Frame yourself as the most interesting and fun man to be around ever. Start with your username: "Justaregularguyy"
Never used tinder but do you have what you like to do etc on there
I actually think you are cute, judging by your picture.. but you scare me by being so focussed on a succes with girls and datingsiteshit.. if you're that focussed too when you are around a girl you'll scare her away too probably.
You don't look like you would be wild in bed. One night stand app.
Tinder is a very superficial app and I suggest someone of your level of confidence to stay away from it.
Hehe the moment I saw the this ''Why don't any cute girls from Tinder ever match me''.. I knew it was you asking.
How long have u been usong tinder?
I have the same problem
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