I'm almost 27 now and for last seven years I had no girlfriend. All this time I tried to find a girl, to date but I failed. I look at least average (maybe better, I can't judge), ok with hygiene, I'm 5'11 heights.
I tried to use dating sites but after hundreds of different messages just 1-2 girls visit my page and rarely write after that. I had several first dates, all unsuccessful.
The most common reason for this is they looks bored. I'm not completely sure but when I was talking with girls in the office not about work (and instead about for example movies or weather or news) it seems they tried to find each reason to start speaking with someone else and thus evade me. At the same time I never had such problems speaking with males on same topics, on the contrary they are mainly interested and listen me with high patience.
Another problem is that they are for some point "a bit afraid" as said one on my hobbies. These are political activism and social science. To evade this issue I tried to find girl with common interests but in my country it' s impossible, 99% in related clubs and groups are male. However the only girl I had seven years ago I found on forum for guys with these hobbies.
I have some male friends but they either suffer of same problem or married since early 20's and can't help in any way.
So I'm thinking more and more about committing suicide because of this. I don't really want to die but I'm tired of such life.
I'm tired of these hundreds of attempts, I just want to have thing hundreds of millions have now and often with no or small efforts.
Most Helpful Girl
She's out there somewhere
If you leave this life you're leaving her
Maybe you need a change of scenery
Try taking a new class in a subject of something you'd never seriously considerd
Take a vacation somewhere nearby but totally new for a few days
As for the office
Don't bother conversing with them
just be pleasent
Hey Linda, I really like that jacket, it's a really great color for you
Smile and then carry on with your day
Oh Mary, new shoes? Very (positive adjective relevent to their personality)