I've met all my boyfriend's friends and we've been together six months but it seems he's starting to see them less and less even when he isn't with me. The only people he makes an active effort to see are me and his best friend but apart from that he never seems to initiate any plans unless someone else does and those invites seem to come less and less for him. A few Saturdays ago I had a girl's night thing for a friend so I couldn't meet up with him like usual. rather then see if any of his friends were free he just spent the night at home alone.
we're usually together most of the weekend and I've made it clear to him that if he wants to take a small chunk of time to check his messages and phone to see if people are trying to get in touch with him I won't get mad. He generally ignores his phone when he's with people he cares about (family, friends, me) but given the sizeable amount of time we're together I'm fine with him taking time to check his phone. Should I talk to him about this?
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His friends probably don't like him anymore. When you have friends and totally ditch them when you get into a relationship, your true self comes out and thats not good. His friends are probably over him, thats why he only has you and his best friend in his life, which is NOT good. Because that means his entire social life is dependent upon YOU. . . yea not good. He needs to realize that you can't be his whole life and he has to go out and do things for himself. Because if y'all break up who does he got? Tell that fool to get some social skills and make friends.0