I am currently seeing a guy who is also seeing one other girl, because he is not sure which of us to choose... I really really like him but I also feel a bit weird about not being his exclusive choice. It's only been a few weeks since he started seeing me.
Just to be clear, he's not doing anything sexual either of us - just hanging out one-on-one, talking about a variety of topics (both deep and casual). He is not looking for hook-ups but a long-term relationship and he is trying to see which one of us he is more compatible with.
Do you guys think this is weird at all or is it okay? I feel a bit nervous about continuing to see him because I'm afraid of getting hurt but he is such a lovely guy in every other way.
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Only if I get to have a second choice too... I don't know if it's just me but I wouldn't like it if he was dating another girl while he was dating me. I wouldn't waste my time on someone who wasn't sure about me. I wouldn't want to risk getting hurt because you don't decide when and who you fall for.2
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