I once got rejected by a guy and i got so mad and said so many mean things to him, it was after dating him for a while. I think i "learne" it from my mom, when she has fought with her previous boyfriends.
I dated a guy in January and tings were amazing, but than he began pulling away and told me he had a lot going on and he didn't have time for anything serious. I mean i was so mad at him because i felt he dragged me into this love mess and now he is bailing on me, when things were great and we had an amazing time , and he told me liked me etc, and i was so suprised at his behaviour.
But i remained calm and didn't lash out and thought okay dont be crazy, there might be a chance he would like ro rekendle things, and i gave him a lot of space and didn't contact him for 6 - 7 months, and he contacted me, and wanted to meet.. i ws sooo suprised, so we met like a month ago and we had a great time, we are still friends, and i dont want to push it.. i asked if he wanted to go biking and he said yes but he had to work so it didn't work out.. he said he would let me know when he has time.. still havnt heard anything.. but i can't be mad.. cause being crazy drives him away right?
So basically we shouldn't behave like a psyko and get mad, but instead be okay and say i understand and just give the guy space?
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i'd just be cool... who cares?0