younger guys, how would you feel/ react if you're dating a girl who tells you nothing past 1st 'till marriage? would a guy break up with her or wait for her?
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I'm going by Wikipedia's definition which goes:
2) breast touching
4) (home run) vaginal intercourse.
First off I'm waiting for marriage for sex so would I break up with a girl for sharing my lifestyle? lol no. Do nothing more than kissing until marriage? Tough call. My girlfriend wanted to be very reserved. She said that she had planned to save breast touching until engagement. Of course she told me that AFTER I finished kissing/sucking on her breasts LOL We had been together for a year just kissing so we naturally progressed into becoming more physical. Point being that VERY often girls don't hold on to their boundaries very tightly. Women have needs too, and after being with a guy for so long she begins to cave as the trust and love is there and it's apparent that the guy isn't in it just for sex. If I did happen to date a girl that strongly believed in only kissing until marriage I guess I COULD deal with it but I'd preferably want to do more.
Rule of thumb: if a guy has gone x far with one girl he'll likely want at least x amount with another. Like, my gf is my 2nd gf ever (and I her 1st bf) and I've never gone far with my 1st gf (by choice... she wanted sex but I didn't want it) so I had no issue with waiting for her to be comfortable with kissing. However, now that I've gotten to 2nd base I'd hate to be with a girl that restricted me to 1st. Such as how most guys who have had sex don't want to wait too long in future relationships because they know how great it really is.0