I noticed this girl I just started seeing has scars that are OBVIOUSLY from cutting. Thing is she is super hot doesn't appear to be the type to self harm either. she's v smart, fun to be around and she's seems pretty secure. she's never had a boyfriend which I think is cute also- But should I still go for it or friend zone her?
- Friend zone herVote A
- Avoid herVote B
- No strings attached relationshipVote C
- Date herVote D
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look... you don't sound like the kind of person who'd be a good partner for her. I feel like you automatically see her possible issues as a burden, and it's not a bad thing in itself just means you're not mature or ready for this kind of compassion or commitment. my advice as a former self-harmer is don't get too involved with her/ make her fall for you because this is hardly going to work out.4