Every time I become interested in a girl she always tells me that she only likes me as a friend. I don’t think they mean it as a means of rejection; they seem like pretty nice girls. The speech they give is always the same: “You’re a really nice guy, kind hearted, sweet, and funny and I really enjoy spending time with you but I just want to be friends.” If I really was all these things then why doesn’t she want to be in a relationship with me?
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I think what woman are most attracted to is ability. If they give you the friend's speech it might mean that they are impressed by your companionship but not necessarily by your "headway" or "ability." And if you aren't able to get a 4.0 in school, you might consider dating a girl with a 1.6 so that she will be impressed with your 2.4. ALL woman are attracted to ability - whether that is intellectual ability, academic ability, career ability, physical ability, social ability, religious ability, pain tolerance, charm ability or sexual ability.0