This guy has been chasing me for 7 months now and I finally agreed to a date. For the last 4 months he has sent me a single long-stemmed red rose (I really, really hate roses !). Anyway, I had been in a ltr and engaged for 3 months before we both mutually agreed it wasn't what we wanted. We were childhood sweethearts and had become like brother & sister.
I moved to London and started working with this guy. We hit it off immediately and just had instant chemistry. We tease each other a lot and he's very kind and patient with me. Listens to my crap & gives me helpful advice. I no longer work with him but we still hang out and every so often he asks if he can take me to dinner. I've always shut it down as I wanted to experience life being single and he has a bit of a rep as a player (red flag !).
Anyway, I finally felt ready and he asked me out to dinner. A few days later he told me he wants to take me to Paris (one of my favourite cities) and I was gobsmacked. He is wealthy and has a private family plane. I am not sure how I feel about it though. Is it over the top or he is just showing that he really wants to get into a relationship with me?
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Maybe he's just used to showing off the money. Is he worth the trouble? Does he legitimately know what you're about?
Why not a coffee shop (privately owned, or whatever) the first time around? Something simple.
agree with "the wowness of things might distort your initial decisions"1