Um, yes. That is correct. I've been with my bf for 4 months. And I just found out that he's been dating another girl all along. I won't get into the actual details but when I confronted him (flipping out naturally) he admitted that he was with this girl 2 months before meeting me. He loves her but he never expected meeting me and then falling in love with me as well. WTF.
He would tell me all the time that he loves me so I was incredibly blind sided by this. I told him to never speak to me again but he keeps trying to get me back. All the while still dating this other girl!!! What is wrong with him? If he truly loved me like he said he did, wouldn't he break it off with her and be with me? I don't think I could even take him back after all this honestly. Lying to two girls about each other is no way to have a successful relationship with either one.
Have you ever found out that you were the "other girl"? What did you do?
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Don't take him back, girl. Don't even think about it. Bottom line is that you can't trust him anymore. He cheated on you and played this other woman. If u even think about taking him back, think of what he did to her. Nothing would stop him from doing the same thing to you. You don't want that.0