I believe men tell us who they are all the time but we don't always pick up on it.
For example, a player I once dated said:
"I don't want to hurt you" which actually meant, when I am ready to leave, I did tell you that I didn't want to hurt you so you have no right to be upset.
"Don't believe the hype" means, it's not what everybody thinks it is. I've heard this used countless times when a guy has been asked about his relationship with a girl.
Get my drift?
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Thats because you women spend too much time in your heads. you want to be heard but in many cases refuse to listen. I like the first line of your description. that is absolute truth. Men Always start out with truth, but women put us in a position where we Have to lie and we don't like it. when a guy says something like "I don't want to hurt you" its probably a heads up and if you refuse to listen (like most women tend to do) and still convince yourself it will go somewhere then yea, you have no right to be upset. I constantly preach that guys are very simple creatures... but many women think they are complicated because they themselves don't understand their own complication.
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