i have been dating a guy for a while now, but this weekend i figured out a girl he hangs out with likes him. what makes it complicated is she is always around him at football games and diverts his attention from me. she also said crap about me and how we should break up cause I'm not that "into him". she also tried to convince me to say no to him when he asked me out.
so she is bring drama between us and is making him act like the messenger and i don't want to tell him the reason why I'm mad at her cause he doesn't know anything.
what can i do? it kind of bothers me and i really do like him, should i tell him or not? i really hate drama but i have a fear she might say something about me or get us into an unwanted argument.
- say somethingVote A
- say nothingVote B
Most Helpful Guy
If you say something, you risk a lil' bit of drama. If you say nothing, this continues and you get more and more pissed while he wonders why. If you explain it to him like you explained it here, you should be fine. A good guy should be able to see where you're coming from and reassure you. Also he should talk to this other girl and explain that they're just friends. This other girl can then talk shit as much as she likes, she knows you called her out on her actions and now there's nothing she can do because he's made his choice clear to her. Some people!1