Why are women told to lower their standards and date or marry a guy they are not attracted to. Yet dudes like Hugh Heffner are marrying gorgeous women they are obviously attracted to. Why the double standard?
Most Helpful Guy
Women aren't expected to settle, but what it is that I've noticed is they end up settling. Most women have to come to a fork in the road where they have to choose to keep going from one attractive guy to the next, or stay with a man who isn't but is responsible and committed man.
There are men out there who are attractive or the least bit easy on the eyes (not the hottest guys but everything is in the right place), and responsible. There are plenty actually in my opinion anyway. It all depends where you look.1