I know this was a huge mistake. She's only 17. One of the biggest mistakes in my life by far. She was at my house and we were watching a movie and started making out. She was being a total tease, taking my clothes off and stuff but when i pulled up her skirt a bit she pushed my hand away and told me i was "using her" and she got really annoyed and started screaming at me. I went to hug her and she totally freaked out on me and like kicked me so i got annoyed and grabbed her wrist. she then tried to kick me in the nuts and I kinda hit her in the stomach to get her to move away. I felt so bad but then she kinda just went in my bedroom and went to sleep? I felt bad but i really don't get her reaction. We've been together for 1 year, and i just don't get it. When she woke up this morning she just kinda made breakfast even for me and went shopping with a friend and gave me a kiss before she left. I don't get it really? It was a mistake. Any advice? Also why is she acting this way?
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um, firstly, how much older than her are you exactly? secondly, she may have been teasing you because the new sexual experience is exciting. but her child instincts kick in when a guy older than her touches her because even if the age difference IS small, there still IS an age difference. she's not ready for you to touch her, but she wants to try touching you. it's complicated, i know. but humans in general are complicated, male or female. she still cares about you, but maybe she just got a bit freaked out from it. since you DID pull up her skirt. she was probably scared that you might have wanted sex when she wasn't ready. trying to kick you in the balls is an instinctive self-defence reaction for girls. when they feel sexually threatened especially. and after you hit her in the stomach, she'd be even more scared because you are an older male and that makes you much stronger than her and she probably felt weak and vulnerable when you hit her. but clearly, she still likes you enough to make breakfast and give you a kiss on the cheek. if she truly hated you after that, she would have found a way to leave your place the previous night. she wants to try to fix the relationship, but is probably scared that you will not like her or call her immature and choose an older more sexually experienced girl than her. teenage girls are fragile in this way.0