Tinder has destroyed my self esteem completely and I feel like nobody wants me..
This can't be normal. I literally swipe everybody sometimes just to see who swipes me back and the only matches I get are clearly objectively repulsive looking girls. I'm not even being shallow. These people I get matched with are truly bad looking. Why is this the best I can do? If beauty is subjective, then why hasn't a cute girl liked my picture on there after 6 months?
Honestly, how bad are my looks? Should my standards be low? I'm almost 22 and I've had no luck on Tinder or in real life either.. I don't even know how to lower them because they are very normal standards now...
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Don't base your self-esteem on Tinder. That app's horrible for self-esteem unless you're a girl, an extremely hot guy, or someone very secure in themselves. There's way more guys on there, all swiping yes, so girls get a lot of matches and messages. That makes them more selective about who they say yes to. Hot guys - well more girls swipe yes on them, so they get many matches and messages too. It's just very shallow and artificial; all about appearance and presentation.0