Okay, so I really like this guy. He's in one of my classes and we talk a lot. I don't even know if he likes me, and I'm not even sure of whether or not he has a girlfriend, but I was thinking of asking him to hang out at some point. I'm normally pretty shy, but I thought why the hell not, because if I don't do it now I may regret it. If a relationship doesn't work out, I still really want to be friends with him, because he's funny and nice and just fun to be around.
So what are guy's opinions on a girl making the first move? What should I say? And what would you think if a girl that you had just been talking to (as friends, because I'm assuming that he doesn't see me as anything more at the moment) asked you out?
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Me personally would love it if the girl asked me out, I think that it really put the mind at ease not having to feel like you have to be the one to take the first step.
As to what you should say, just be normal and ask it directly. Maybe not the first thing you say, but after a short conversation or something0
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