This question is very interesting. Playing hard to get is attractive really?
For me, I will find it even more attractive if the person makes his or her feelings crystal clear but put efforts to show it in different ways.
I mean, if I like a girl I tell her right away that I am interested in her and I will be engaging in pursue her to make her my woman. Right after the first date.
What I do is to show the exact same feelings in different ways. I mean I will buy her a gift related to her hobby or passion. Leave the surprise dinner on her car. Write poems about her over all feminine. I tell her directly what I would do when I will be blessed by time to have her in my arms. I planned things in unusual ways. I hug and tell that she is a beautiful woman and I am just happy that I have a pleasure to pursue her. I engage in intense eye contact, make her smile, send her funny texts, encourage her to just enjoy herself. U tell her to the point "HONEY, I WANT YOU TO BE IN MY LIFE BUT I LOVE YOUR FREEDOM TO CHOOSE" I am not here to win you but just to give you unusual memories and I want you to just enjoy the journey. I pour my heart out.
I have always been successfull with this method and I think its more interesting to give meaning to a small things.
Wtf is all about playing hard to get? I have nothing else to do but go nuts because someone is ain't paying attention to me instead of putting the effort that I can appreciate?
What's your point girls?
So what is this all about hard to get Bs?
What Girls Said 2
you sound too clingy. if a guy did that to me right after the first date I would wonder if he had some screws loose, especially if you routinely do this to every girl you date.0
No it's not attractive at all in my opinion. I don't like it when guys play hard to get. It shows that theyre immature and mostly only girls play hard to get. Don't do it.
Please answer mine? www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1205721-am-i-his-backup-plan-b0
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