And how do I do that? Because from his point of view I'm sure it looks like everything's going fine, but it's not.
Here's the thing: I get the sense he doesn't want a relationship, he wants something casual and to get physical quickly, and I don't want that. I don't really want to have sex outside of a relationship. So our pace and views on this are mismatched.
We've been hanging out and going on dates for about three months now, and he's always enthusiastic to see me, but there have been 1-2 week stretches when we didn't see each other, and outside of seeing each other in person about once a week, we aren't in contact much. We don't call each other, and pretty much only text to make plans to hang out.
The one time I tried to bring up like where we're at, he kind of just said I'm over-thinking it and we should just relax and have a good time. Which pretty much answers my question, and not in the way I wanted.
I'm just not sure I want to date him anymore if we're going to continue on like this. Advice?
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Yes it doesn't seem like a relationship thats he's willing to put in time. Now if he's really busy with life, such as things that take precendatn over a loved one, such as Doctors or Partners of a company. Because these types of life styles the person is generally married to their office. if not that, then its he's not as into you for sure.
I know when I like a girl, I wanna see her, talk to her, connect with her and make sure she's happy and so am I1