My girlfriend went to a party on Halloween and got blackout drunk for the first time and made out with some guy. I found out like 4 days later and I asked her multiple times a couple days before and went through her phone and found out. She lied to my face and she finally admitted it. Should I breakup with her I don't know what to do... I'm more mad she lied to my face then anything
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If this is the First time she has given you this Doubting Thomas Doubt in your mind because of a Fright nite that ended up badly with blacking out and lip locking too, then I believe with a case like this and No past history of Ever have been found to be a cheating cheetah, everyone deserves a second chance.
Yes, she 'lied to my face' because she was scared like a cat on a hot tin roof that you would break it off and dump her like the trash that I am not really seeing that she is here. And with coming clean, for she did get caught with her hand in the cookie jar, now is the time for you both to sit down once things have cooled down and have a serious soul mate talk. Open lines of convo are one of the most important factors in any new or old relationship.
You have every right to be angry with her failing as she fibbed to your face. However, anyone would be petrified when faced down in a situation like this and with you putting her on the spot with your own proof in the pudding, she knew she had gotten caught red handed.
If you decide to stay, she has some proving to do to earn this trust back which she shouldn't expect for awhile. Something like this that can put a wedge in any good relationship, needs to be taken in baby steps, handled with care and some laws laid down that if it ever happens again, you will be gone before the bewitching hour even strikes midnite.
However, on her part needing to prove a few things, you can't harp on the past, go snooping into her phone by being your own Private Eye. You have to Learn to trust her again and work with her as this couple who love one another. Together you need to be this A-team who are making the Effort together and don't let the past get in your way of what you both started at.
Good luck. xx
Good luck. xx0