I've tried different ways to set up a date with this girl that I have known for awhile but she hasn't responded. I was thinking about popping up at her work since its a restaurant to arrange things.. Good or bad idea?
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Well, I'm going to go on the assumption that you know this girl well enough. Now, if I understand you correctly, this topic has come up before and she hasn't responded, which isn't a great sign. Showing up at her work might make her feel cornered and pressured to give you an answer, and if it's a bad one, potentially mess up her day because she feels bad she had to let you down in a social setting. Don't fret though, because that might not be the case. If I were you I would just approach her in a casual situation (via text if you must) and just come right out and say what you feel. Don't beat around the bush or act sheepish, just be forward (not forceful). Simply say you like her and would love to take her out. If she doesn't respond, it's not impolite to just ask her for an answer so you know whether or not to move on.1