On my profile pic she's on the left and I'm on the right I know she's prettier than me and probably better at everything but I don't see why he has to keep saying in arguments that she's "fit" which means hot etc. Surely I'm not that bad? He calls me ugly and says I always do this really weird ugly face so I said to him this morning why can't you be cute like my ex and he went in a mood and went into bed and said I'm hiding my ugliness coz I hurt his feelings... I already feel really down aboutmy looks as I've never seen myself as pretty or whatever I've always seen myself as the ugly one, sometimes he will call me nice things and says he doesn't mean it when he gets nasty but I can't help but not think I will just never be good enough he says she has a better body and I have the body of 14 year old I'm assuming that's because she has average sized boobs and I have small breast it's not my fault I was born different :(
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He is treating you like a doormat, specialdiamond, not loving you Nor accepting You unconditionally. And with comparing you continuously with the skeleton who is Obviously still in his Open closet, it is not only rattling him with his remarks here, but Rattling your thoughts and broken heart as well. He is rude and crude and fights dirty to belittle you, bring up his boob blast from the past and many times he will do it Deliberately just to slam dunk you, my dolly, because he gets a Thrill Kill out of it... it's away to tear you down, self esteem and all. He has you brainwashed into believing you are 'Ugly' and feels this is his power over you to lay on the ground where he can continue to walk all over you... he loves the control he thinks he has here.
He knows it is eating at you so no matter fight or not, he is putting Miss Goodie Two shoes on his problem child pattern Pedestal and making you the low man on his totem pole. It's disrespectful to you, a real slap in your face and with making you stand there with egg all over your face, he is living in the past Yet with a Ghost who probably doesn't give a cobweb about him anymore and he is probably just feeling resentment, some pent up anger and has Not totally moved on.
No, you have nothing to worry about with your own looks, cookie. You are a sweet, lovely girl who is only at fault for being His Enabler and scapegoat to throw digs at and even Remind himself that you are just his Rebound Rebecca whom he can get his jollies off on tormenting... while in the back of the mind, he is 'Tormenting' Her as he looks at you.
Sit him down and have a serious convo with this little pup. Tell him he is barking up the wrong tree and if he doesn't stop yapping at you about his Big bites and all, you will give him his walking papers and send him back to the past on your own gallon of gas.
Please don't feel offended but... I see a little resemblance when I see you and her here together... my own outside opinion.
Good luck. xx1