I'm 29, and dating this guy for almost 3 months now. We were introduced by a mutual friend. I thought he was tall, handsome, ambitious and very hard working. Plus, he's easy to be around. These are all his amazing qualities that made me start dating him. But my feelings are getting complicated. I don't like him more with each date. I like his company enough. But I don't find him that funny or engaging in conversations. And sometimes, he can be slightly unrefined with his words. He is hilarious over text however.
He's getting a little upset because he feels like things are getting a little one sided now, where he's liking me more every date, but I'm not. I can't imagine breaking up and never seeing him again. I would miss him too much. The idea of hurting him breaks my heart. And he has so many great qualities, that I don't know if breaking up is the wrong decision. Has anyone felt this way with someone? Do you keep giving them a chance? Or think it will never work out? :(:(
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"I thought he was tall, handsome, ambitious and very hard working". Those are prereqs for a lot of women, gotta be tall, dark, handsome and well paid then he's a viable option so to speak. You need those things because if a guy is in his mid to late 20s and hasn't got his shit together then he's a loser. But you have to look beyond the basics, at the person in all their complicated glory. You gotta find a balance.0