And if so how can i get this confidence? thanks
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I'd just like to point out to the girls how immensely irksome it is to feel pressured to be confident.
I could just be my relaxed and confident self and everything would be fine, but then you have to tell us you like confident and funny guys or whatevs, then everything is fudged. Now I feel like I need to be super cool fun guy all the time.
I feel like no negative emotion can be expressed. Like I'm only allowed to be either jovial or indifferent/uncaring, and that any crack in that visage means I'm "emotionally unstable." If I complain or propose that it might be unfair to ask this of us well then I just appear meek, right?
Ok, back to being jovial. Woo! Force that enthusiasm!0