A couple nights ago my bf and I were talking about how we never do it anymore. His reasons were some nights he is just tired, not in the mood, because I fight with him, or sometimes I just don't turn him on... I asked him about it last night n he denies saying I don't turn him on sometimes. Why would he deny it now? And why would he still be with me if I dont? He tells me he is still attracted to me so idk.
Why would he say this but still wanna be with me?
What Guys Said 1
Maybe what he wanted to say the previous night was that he could not be turned on. You know, in general. Not that it's because of you. Despite the common myth that we are thinking about sex 24/7 we all have some periods of time where we just don't feel horny. It's not the girl's (your) fault. It just happens to everyone sometimes and it goes away.
You mentioned fighting. How about for a day or two you try to be slightly nicer and tender towards him Then you can try some light foreplay and see how it goes? You know, fighting can be a major turn off for a lot of people. And many times all it takes is a little apology and some tenderness to fix it.
In any case, you shouldn't worry that mauch about it. Every guy can have a stage like this and then return to normal.0
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What Girls Said 1
He likes you but is just too stressed out. You need to sit him down and have a serious talk about this. Not just say "Why won't we do it any more?". Try to make a date and have fun that day then come back and do it. I read somewhere guys tend to have the highest testosterone levels in the morning and women tend to be more active at night. That might have something to do with it.0
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